Vacay.

so I'm on a little vacation right now, and so far it's been more than eventful.

the ride up was bliss, took a different route than usual and went through Tecate.

Got spoiled by some grandparents, saw The King and I.

Borrowed Irresistible Revolution by Claiborne from the Grandpa.

Flew from San Diego to Seattle.

Became really confused about the whole sun setting thing.
really confused.
In Mexico it's been setting at 6:30.
as we were flying north, really north, like ridiculously north, I thought, that's funny the sun hasn't set yet, it feels like we've been in the plane forever.
then someone said it's 8:40, we're almost to Seattle.
It still didn't dawn on me yet that the earth tilts, until two other things happened, then it was like big light bulb! oh, it's summer time, and we're in the northern hemisphere, so the sun sets later.
sometimes I feel like because I live in Mexico I should get more sun than, say, cold, rainy, snowy places like Seattle ;)
even though this wasn't what I expected I'm not gonna complain!
Mandy and I have spent a lot of time in the sun the last couple days, that has been such a blessing.

I also got to go into work with her and chill in the flower shop, my idea of a good time :)

Her housemates have 3 chickens, 2 cats, and 1 dog, so not too much different than my home in Mexico.

*** But last night I thought I was going to be stuck in the coop. ***

We were moving the chickens from outside to inside and I stepped inside the coop and the door shut behind me! Luckily there is a release for the latch on the inside, but I didn't notice that until I had a moment of panic.
I love going to church with Mandy, partly because she's one of my spiritual sisters, and partly for the nostalgia of how our friendship started out. After church there was Applebees, which was also dripped of nostalgia.


interlude
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I think incarnate is the buzzword for our generation. I've been reading books related to religious thought/practice and three of the authors have talked a lot about Jesus being incarnate. (lauren winner, claiborne, schmemann)
(and then in church yesterday they talked about Jesus being incarnate as well. Something I haven't really noticed before.)
The only thing is Schmemann wrote his book 40 years ago. The other two are recent writers. It also strikes me b/c he was an Eastern Orthodox priest, Winner is anglican/former Jew, and Claiborne is an ordinary radical (his own label).
that's just got me thinking recently that's all.



ok, done with that
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Today we slept in. I didn't get out of bed till 9:30, but hadn't gone to bed till 1. I'm hoping all this staying up late and sleeping in, will condition me to be ready for my flight to the midwest tomorrow.
Although, it might be a hard transition once I'm back in Mexico.

We explored Pike Place Market, which is where the first Starbucks is.



Bright colours at the market...


It was a nice day. But I'm tired now.

and I really like having mountains AND sea. so nice.



so I realized that I haven't been tackling classical literature recently, and that I feel silly for thinking I am well read if for now I'm sticking to Memoir and "Religious" Non Fiction. (although in the fall I was reading current/best seller fiction) I haven't avoided it b/c I want to "learn" but I think because I want reading fiction to be relaxing, and I'm not sure how much I can relax when reading classical lit. or maybe it's too many scars from HS english. I mean, I didn't even finish LISTENING to that Jane Austen book that I got on cd in the fall. and that's a pretty lazy way to ingest media. (I'm tired, and this is why I'm blathering on and on and on and on....)but there are seasons in our life, and I did read more literature-y literature in college. sigh. maybe I shouldn't be disappointed in myself. blech.

here's a toast to being more balanced in my reading selections in the future!

They've fed me really well!



(yogurt, chocolate, hamburgers, PBJs, Applebees, Thai)

back to eating!
Happy Memorial day.

call me! or text me!!

I'm in the states today.
You know the cell phone number :)

We just got a new 13 year old.

We received her today. No one knows her whole story yet, but the parts the social worker told us were in front of everyone.
She has an eating disorder, and doesn't like to bathe.

anyways. we'll see how this works out!

photos and link!

Here is a recent-ish bunch of photos.

Recent-ish Photos

and here is our website that they are in the midst of redesigning, not all the links work yet though.

La Paloma

Enjoy!

they say I'm walking on freedom...

My kids were daring each other to drink jalapeno juice straight up, so cute!

Other Bilingual things:
"Do you like that mark?"- (Do you like that brand? "marca" is the Spanish word for brand)

"She's resting, can I tell her you called?" -(one of my really bilingual kids answered the phone yesterday. It was my day off, which is literally "rest, resting" in Spanish. really, I wasn't even home, but I only had the ability to not be home because it was my day off. so what she really meant was that I wasn't around, even though she didn't say it that way)

"I have tos/gripe" - (I have cough, I have flu)

I wasn't at home most of the day yesterday, which was nice (day off), b/c today is also my day off, but the girls keep finding me and talking to me. I guess they love me! Plus random people stop by our house to visit or ask for things. I read in my bathing suit yesterday (at a friends-they have a walled garden), which I feel uncomfortable doing at our house because anybody in the fields around could see me, and because random people stop by (other missionaries, mexican pastors, people that need food) our house ALL of the time, and would definitely be scandalized. and the kids start conversations that focus on skin color, which I find highly problematic and disturbing. "But you're whiter than me, I'm the whitest one, etc." (I know I'm judging since I have the exact opposite conversation all the time "you're tanner than me, I'm the most tan, etc.") It's just not normal to even see a woman in shorts/bathing suit in Mexico unless you're at the beach or in the pool. (Or unless you're watching "family" TV. gross. If I stay in Mexico I don't think I ever want a TV)

The office season finale was the only episode of the office that I saw on TV this year (and with friends). All the rest I watched on the internet, and by myself. It was great to laugh with people. (and discuss it during the commercials)

I finished Evangelical is not Enough yesterday. It was good. I can't wait to type up some of the interesting quotes.

Did I tell you that we took Johanne out to Chinese for mother's day. It was my first Chinese food since November, and so I didn't care what it tasted like!

Books that I hope to start soon:
Wanderings: Chaim Potok's History of the Jews
Living Judaism: The Complete Guide to Jewish Belief, Tradition, and Practice by Dosick
Davita's Harp by Chaim Potok
The Daring Young Man on the Flying Trapeze by Saroyan
The Great Divorce by C.S. Lewis
Letters to my Son by Kent Nerburn
Sophie's World
Reading the Bible Again for the First time
the 2/3 of the Bible that i haven't read recently.

tell me if you want to see me, May 28-June 6th and we'll try to work something out.
<3

crazy! or loca!

so Johanne and Steve left on Thursday to go see their daughter (who is the president of her student body) graduate college.

They took like half the kids, but gave me an extra person to help out.

We decided to make pizza since it's a friday, and borrow a movie. Somehow, half the kids that we know in the neighborhood ended up at our house :) It's been pleasant.

The last two days were rough. I think the kids feel like they need to test their boundaries or make sure they are not abandoned. I have quite a few people willing to help me out in a pinch, so that's nice.

One of the girls that ran off a few weeks ago, ran off again yesterday. I think she thinks that by running she can escape her problems. Here I always run after her, even reminding her that she quits when we exercise as a house while I keep going! She has come back both times, but the reason she is with us is because she ran away from her mom, she ran away from her uncle, etc. She is the one going back to her family in July, but I would like to see a change in her coping. After she was calm I tried to explain to her if she wants to be alone she needs to do it in different ways, but she didn't want to listen to me tell her those things. She told me she doesn't want the psychologist's help either. It's so tough for me when someone doesn't want to accept help.

Movies are a big privilege in our house as we don't have a TV. C- got out of bed 2 hours late after I'd told her to get out of bed twice, so I told her she had to go to bed 2 hours earlier. It's the normal punishment. This morning she accepted it, it wasn't a problem. But tonite, when she found out we were going to watch a movie she was TICKED. So then she told me it was my fault she didn't get out of bed. riiiiiiight.

I need a lot of prayer for my attitude right now, because next Friday I'm leaving for 2 weeks. I love them, but today it feels like a job, like a job I need to escape!

I didn't realize how much more free time I have when Johanne and Steve are here. They take the girls more than I thought.

It smells like summer here. I think it's from living next to big fields of wheat, but I can't be sure.

Some people here don't know the word in the other language. For example, there was a whole English conversation the other day, but every time we wanted to say "scold" we said the Spanish word "reganar." This happens to Spanish speakers or to English speakers. I use the word "reganar" a lot, but honestly, I had to look it up just now to know EXACTLY what it means. I think it's really amusing when we speak in Spanglish. Actually, sometimes people even use the shortest words or shortest phrases in both languages and mix them to be lazy. Kind of a complicated way to be lazy.

The other Spanglish things I like hearing are when people transfer grammatical structures from one language in the other. "What does the table lack?" (really, "what's missing!") that's using Spanish in your English!

(my girls are running to our house now, to beat each other to use the shower. crack me up!)

The other night we had a murder mystery dinner in honor of Julia. I tried to speak with a British accent most of the night, but even accidentally used some Spanish words. It was a real hoot. I also was voted "most dramatic" which I loved. I thought I was playing with a bunch of people that were honest all the time, so I was shocked when I got to the end and found out that people were sneaky, or purposefully mislead people!

GROCERY BILL SCARINESS.
so I go grocery shopping every week. and have been for quite some time, so I have an idea of how much we spend.
This time we went, and it cost $290!!!!!!!!! It is never that much. Luckily I had some of my own money on me, and we paid all but a dollar of it. The cashier told me not to worry about it. I was pretty flabbergasted though. I came home and racked my brain, and the receipt! Unfortunately the receipt only has prices on it, no labels. I intended to mark every purchase that I could figure out what it was, but realized that was unattainable. The very last item said I'd bought 10 @ $8.40 a piece. in total $84. I realized I hadn't bought anything for $84. So then, it was up to us to figure out what the item was. I realized what happened. She had asked me how much flour I had, and I said 10 kilos, and so she typed in 10 bags of 10 kilos each. I didn't get to go back to the grocery, but Angela talked to them with the receipt, and the lady said she realized it right after we had left the store. sigh.


well, I'm getting bug bites while I sleep, so I'm going to go bug out my room and go to bed.


I'll be home from May 28th-June 6th. Do let me know if you'd like to hang out. It might be a little crazy, so I'm thinking about trying to get an idea now so I can manage my time right.

<3

One of my girls has a 14 year old cousin who is pregnant. She heard that the cousin wants to sell the baby. SELL!! I asked how much they cost, and the girls got really upset thinking that I am interested in buying babies. last time I checked, I'm not interested in purchasing babies from the black market.


I think teenagers and adults don't understand each other a lot. Whenever my girls complain/whine I ask them not to talk like that. Then they say, "but I didn't say any bad words!" and I say "the tone of your voice is bad" but then they look at me confused. so today, I tried to sneak record one of my girls when she was whiney so that she could hear how it sounds, and she didn't whine all morning! It's funny to want two totally opposite things and have them foil each other. (I want them to not whine, but I wanted her to whine so that they might stop whining after I play it back to them.)


We served rice with sugar and cinnamon and milk this morning, which the girls were pumped about! apparently, it's a very mexican thing to serve. UNTIL they opened the pot and realized I didn't make it the way a Mexican woman would make it. (apparently you cook the milk with the rice, and I let them add it to already cooked rice.)


(and apparently, people here didn't know the electric slide. but now they do. Thank you Mr. 8th grade gym class teacher.)

haz llover...

I’m so lucky that my girls are listening to the radio. It has a nice MIX of music. When they put in CDs, they just press the repeat button, and you hear the same cd for 4 hours, or more. Through the Mexican radio I’ve discovered that some of my favorite Christian artists from high school made Spanish records that I never knew anything about! (esp. Guardian! 3 albums!!)

So even though we live in the country, it’s not always quiet. Like last night there was loud dance music being broadcast from the hill, other times it’s someone selling something, with a speaker system attached to the outside of their car. They say their wares aloud. “Oranges, Strawberries, Corn” along with the current price. The propane man comes this way as well.

I bought carrots from a stall at the globos and realized I’d purchased the same carrots you buy at the grocery store, but conveniently peeled and repackaged in the same package.

When we buy white sugar at the grocery store it comes in clear plastic bags that were previously whatever else. I suppose someone saves them and cleans them? It caught me off guard, b/c I’d put the sugar in our cart, but then saw that the label said “chocolate morsels.” “Who put chocolate in our cart??” I’ve also seen labels saying corn starch, carrots, brown sugar, etc.

(Keep in mind I shop for groceries for 20 people a week) Last time we were at the grocery with 3 carts, we’d already paid and were loading the car, near the loading dock where they accept deliveries, and somehow, we ended up with 4 of the employees (stockers) helping us load the car, which was super helpful, since I couldn’t get the back door open! Usually I tip a little 10 year old to put our groceries in the car, but was surprised to see how helpful all these adult men were! I think we may have made friends with the employees there. Sometimes all the girls don’t come with me, and I’ve noticed that the guys say, “tell so and so hi for me!” ☺


One of my girls biked 4 miles, then ran 4 miles today. YAY! One of my other girls asked to go with the group, but she quits at mile 2 of our 3 mile power walk. We told her she couldn't go on the 8 mile, and she pouted about it. I told her she could jog with me this afternoon when I go, but she told me she didn't want to. whatever :)

It hasn't rained here since, February?